SERIOUSLY THIS IS A THOUSAND TIMES MORE FUCKING LIKELY
Hi! Thanks for the question. I do understand where your concern comes from; however, this is not a rape case. They started dating when she was 17....
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It’s fascinating…the things that I am supposed to be “flattered” by. People practically demand that I be flattered by certain mistreatment, injustice and oppression, and then question my level of “sensitivity” or even my intelligence when I am not flattered.
“For a long time I have watched as the fat rights community has continued to reinforce problematic sexual and relationship hierarchies in fat positive spaces. As a community we whole-heartedly reject the notion that fat bodies are inherently unhealthy or any other stereotype attached to our fat bodies, but what we don’t address is what I feel is almost a compulsive need to prove to others that we are not those stereotypes. While doing this we ignore the reality that people do fall into the spaces we are trying to not fill by distancing ourselves from them…”
Signal boosting this!
Also, it’s not my place to say anything about what fat positivity politics should look like, but in case fat positivity folks reading this think that the ideas about “compulsory sexuality” in an article I recently wrote are useful, here it is:
The Ethical Prude: Imagining An Authentic Sex-Negative Feminism - #Compulsory Sexuality
(I’ve linked directly to the bit on “compulsory sexuality” but there’s more before and after)
Love it! Thanks for the share!
I have no comment to make wrt fat positivity and sexual heirarchies, I just really empathise with the experience about...
Oh, neat, I didn’t know you had a Tumblr. :) Followed!
I don’t necessarily agree with everything in that post (though really, I mostly disagree with how some things are...
Love it! Thanks for the share!