I don’t trust your ass, on principle. Too many white queer/leftist/feminist folks running...
after all the stuff that has happened to black people at the hands of the medical industrial complex it’s amazing that any of us still have the...
My mother is an interesting woman. She’s this person who will never know who the Kardashians are (I’m kind of jealous of that one), or be aware of...
Default Subcategory Erasure is the phenomenon in which the dominant group is considered the standard by which other groups are defined. In race discourse this is seen in stereotypes, but is not limited to stereotypes. An example of such is the stereotype that “Asians are smart.” Clearly here, people of Asian descent are not the standard (which is not overtly stated; it is erased), their status is measured in relativity to the dominant group. It is not the case that “White people are lacking in intelligence,” as white people are the standard by which other groups are defined (Critical Race Collective). See: Whitenormativity and Linguistic Markedness.
Whitenormativity is the underlying assumption at an individual or structural level that white is normal or prototypical of unmarked categories. Simply put, the assumption that, unless overtly stated, white is the norm of any given particular thing. Whitenormativity is the phenomenon ofDefault Subcategory Erasure as it applies to the white dominant group (Critical Race Collective).
Eurocentrism is the holding of European values as a standard in which all other values are compared and contrasted to (Critical Race Collective).
Holism is the view that one must study all aspects of a culture in order to understand the whole culture (Miller and Esterik, 2010).
Gender performativity is the tacit collective agreement to perform, produce, and sustain discrete and polar genders as cultural fictions is obscured by the credibility of those productions – and the punishments (see: the Heterosexual Market) that attend not agreeing to believe in them (Butler 1999, p 179).
The Heterosexual Market is the metaphor which describes the peer social order that develops in adolescent years which considers masculinity and femininity as complementing functions (Eckert 1996). The Heterosexual Market acts as a control of behaviour through social evaluation of peers.
Gender is not something one is born with; it is not something one has; it is something that one does (West and Zimmerman 1987). Gender is something we perform (Butler 1990). Gender is the performance of learned behaviours associated with social constructs of masculinity and femininity (Cahill 1986).
Cultural Relativism is the view that each culture must be understood in terms of the values and ideas of that culture and must not be judged by the standards of another culture (see: Ethnocentrism) (Miller and Esterik, 2010).
Absolute Cultural Relativism is the ideology in which whatever practices occur within a culture must not be questioned or changed because doing so would be ethnocentric (Miller and Esterik, 2010).
Critical Cultural Relativism offers an alternative view that poses questions about cultural practices and ideas in terms of who accepts them and why, and who they might be harming or helping (Miller and Esterik, 2010).
Ethnocentrism is the judging of other cultures by the standards of one’s own culture (or the dominant culture) rather than by the standards of that particular culture (Miller and Esterik, 2010).provided by Sean Gee
i’m not here to convince white people that i am worthy of their humanity, if and when they feel like validating mine
which means i will over-react, i will be over-sensitive, i will take things too seriously
as i damn well please
all as it relates to my humanity as a person of colour
validated by me and only me
i am not here to convince “conscious” black men of my humanity or equality, as it suits them to include me in their delusions lacking grandeur
cause a new world order based in anti-black women’s misogyny is just that….a delusion
i am not here to convince white queers why racially homogeneous LGBT spaces and places are far from “hate free zones” for the likes of my queer black ass
i am not the pictorial definition of “intersectionality”
my life was a crossroads of many things long before the tortoise of queer theory struggled to catch up to this hare
by the way you’re still running
i am not here to convince non-black Muslims of my worth in the global ummah
why my darker skin in a hijab is just as valuable as somebody who is the “fairest” of them all
why the historical legacy of blackamerican Muslim contributions follows me with every step i take
and even if you forget i will remember, bring it up
and if ya don’t know, look it up- now you know!
i am not here to convince white feminists why they have been surfing on waves only amongst themselves
or why you can’t have the word womanist, you can’t have audre lorde, you can’t have our movers and shakers while continually denying our humanity and contributions
not now, not ever
i am not here to convince mainstream party line toting vegans that my plates are continually unlearning, learning, and decolonializing
and we will never eat together, let alone swap cumin, unless yours is too
i am not here to convince people of what they already decided they don’t want to here
i navigate this stream cause i’ve been writing since i was 3 years old
and words are the power in me that voice or performance is for others
they will continue to empower me
with every post
every physical line written
or mentally plotted
and if you learn something
go ahead and werrkk baby
but this is my space
and to follow me
means you are down with the get down
I’m still taking submissions from WOC who are kinky and integrated in the lifestyle. Also, I would love to hear from WOC who are curious but have reservations about BDSM because of race and gender. The BDSM community can seem very white. Almost all the porn and representation of BDSM and kink involve white people. And just because a white person is kinky doesn’t negate any racism and effects of white supremacy in the lifestyle and culture. So please I would love to hear from you ladies. From any race (as long as you’re a WOC). This includes cis and trans* women as well as genderqueer and non-binary folks who still identify or use the term WOC. I want to know if you’ve had problems with fetishization and racialized sexism and misogyny or just issues of invisibility and representation.
for a while i hadn’t been wanting to talk about rape discourse within mainstream feminism. one might say i was afraid.
rape is such a sensitive topic. & i felt i would be trivializing it if i talked about what had been on my mind since i came out with the fact that i myself was raped.
which is, that mainstream feminism does a fucking sucky job at examining the politics of rape with in [T]Woc communities and men also.
i was scared to tell white rape survivors, that [T]WoC need space in the survivor conversation as well. that they are dominating it. that they need to recognize [T]WoC are raped at higher rates. that they cannot claim to have survivor solidarity with [T]WoC if they continue to ignore that mainstream feminism is shitty. but as Woc rape survivor, I can no longer worry about white fee fees. i can no longer worry about those who get the most attention, the most services, the most comfort.
yes, i know, rape culture affects EVERYONE. & makes it so survivors’ experiences aren’t affirmed and we are blamed for our own violation. we all deal with triggers. we all deal with trying to get our lives back.
but WoC aren’t even seen as victims. ever. we’re always impure. always dirty. always hypersexual. always hoes. white womyn dont have to deal with that. we’re starting from scratch.
[T]WoC’s suffering from sexual violence will never be accurately recognized until we are recognized throughly as human beings with basic needs & emotions. & mainstream feminism refuses to do that. we will continue to be murdered, raped, and beaten because it is profitable for the US. Mainstream feminism has shown that they side with US imperialism and politics, therefore, white feminists and others who engage in mainstream feminism as is are complicit within [T]WoC’s death and suffering. they are NOT in solidarity with [T]WoC survivors and I can no longer be in solidarity with those who refuse to criticize and complicate mainstream feminism. This is why this blog is crucial, it is important for us to connect with each other, to create spaces where we are resist in our existence, where can talk about the failings of mainstream feminism, where we carve out our own space based on recognizing and affirming each other’s experiences, humanity, and identities.
with that being sad, i’d just like to say what a rewarding experience for me (& I’m sure all of the other admins) to facilitate this space. thank you all for following. please continue to spread the word. if you feel comfortable, please submit suggestions, critiques, pictures of yourself doing self-care, tips, or stories, and send us questions! You may submit or ask anonymously.
sending love and encouragement to you all.